Monday, September 30, 2013

New Lawyers (and Soon to Be Lawyers): Tips for Honing Interpersonal Skills

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How to Behave at the Bottom of the Food Chain?
Thrive A New Lawyer's Guide to Law Firm Practice
Finding success in a professional environment depends in large part on capitalizing on your own personal strengths and minimizing your weaknesses. In a legal environment, in particular, where you are expected to work closely with colleagues and clients day after day and for long hours, honing your interpersonal skills is a must.
Although not everyone has the same interpersonal qualities, there are a few rules to live by:
  • Be reasonable and even-tempered at all times. Do not display extreme emotions, and do not take frustrations out on anyone (this includes your administrative assistant—the best way to get in trouble as a new lawyer is to treat staff in a disrespectful manner).
  • Be enthusiastic. Express enthusiasm at the prospect of working on any project assigned to you.
  • Get to know your colleagues. Ask them about their work and their interests.
  • Be humble. You are at the bottom of the food chain. Your likability, and not your credentials (even if impressive), is going to carry the day.
  • Steer clear of office gossip or any office dynamics with which you are not comfortable. Use discretion, and keep your personal drama out of the workplace.